the synastry aspects that matter
your venus on their moon. your mars on their pluto. your eros on their psyche. find your aspect, read the truth.
not sure what aspects you have? run a free synastry chart. it shows every aspect between two charts, including 41 asteroids.
the luminaries (sun, moon)
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moon conjunct venus
tender obsession
your moon on their venus is the synastry aspect that makes you ache softly for someone you barely know yet. yo...
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sun conjunct moon
classic soulmate
sun conjunct moon is the aspect astrologers point to when someone asks what a soulmate looks like on paper. yo...
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moon conjunct moon
emotional twins
moon conjunct moon is what it feels like to meet someone whose nervous system runs on the same frequency as yo...
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sun conjunct sun
twin identities
sun conjunct sun is the synastry of meeting someone who is shaped like you. same sign, same season, same way o...
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sun conjunct venus
you love their whole self
your sun on their venus is the aspect that turns ordinary identity into something the other person finds beaut...
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venus conjunct venus
you love the same way
venus conjunct venus is the synastry of meeting someone who loves the way you love. your taste matches. your r...
trine
moon trine venus
easy harmony
your moon trine their venus is the synastry of love that does not have to fight to be itself. the flow between...
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moon square venus
love that pulls then pushes
your moon square their venus is the synastry of wanting someone who keeps almost being right. the feeling is r...
venus & mars (love & desire)
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venus conjunct mars
magnetic chemistry
your venus on their mars is the synastry aspect that makes you forget what you were saying mid-sentence. it is...
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moon conjunct mars
they stir your emotions to life
your moon on their mars is the synastry aspect where they walk in and your feelings wake up. they get under yo...
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mars conjunct mars
either fight or fuck or both
your mars on their mars is the synastry aspect with two engines pointing the same direction. when you are alig...
saturn & pluto (the heavyweights)
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venus conjunct pluto
obsession dressed as love
your venus on their pluto is the synastry aspect that does not let you go quietly. you fall in deep and fast a...
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moon conjunct pluto
soul-deep emotional pull
your moon on their pluto is the synastry aspect that finds the part of you nobody else has touched. you feel k...
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saturn conjunct moon
stable but heavy, lifelong
your saturn on their moon is the synastry aspect that builds a roof over the relationship and sometimes forget...
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saturn conjunct venus
the marriage aspect, weighty
your saturn on their venus is the synastry aspect astrologers point to when they say this one is going to last...
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saturn conjunct sun
structural lifelong bond
your saturn on their sun is the synastry of relationships that are built to last, even when they are not alway...
asteroid synastry (the deeper layer)
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eros conjunct venus
desire wrapped in beauty
your eros on their venus is the synastry layer most astrologers skip, and it is the one that explains why you ...
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eros conjunct moon
they desire your soft places
your eros on their moon is the aspect that takes desire and aims it at the most defenseless part of someone. t...
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eros conjunct psyche
soul fucking
your eros on their psyche is the aspect every spiritual person describes badly because language does not actua...
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eros conjunct mars
raw, predatory, unmistakable
your eros on their mars is the aspect that makes both of you stupid in the best way. this is desire meeting dr...
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eros conjunct ascendant
they want you on sight
your eros on their ascendant is the aspect that makes someone notice you across a room before you have said a ...
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juno conjunct venus
wife/husband energy
your juno on their venus is not a fling aspect. juno is the asteroid of marriage, the long-haul partner, the p...
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lilith conjunct mars
forbidden, electric, dangerous
your lilith on their mars is the aspect that makes both of you act out the parts of yourself you were told wer...
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chiron conjunct moon
you touch their oldest wound
your chiron on their moon is the synastry aspect where you accidentally find the bruise no one else has been a...
the nodes (karmic ties)
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north node conjunct ascendant
destined relationship
your north node on their ascendant is the aspect that does not feel like dating, it feels like a door opening....
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north node conjunct sun
you point them toward growth
your north node on their sun is the aspect that means you are pulling them toward their future. their sun is t...
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north node conjunct moon
soul-level life direction
your north node on their moon is the aspect that does not feel like a relationship, it feels like a contract. ...
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vertex conjunct sun
fated meeting
your vertex on their sun is the synastry aspect that makes you stop mid-sentence the first time you meet them....
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vertex conjunct venus
destined love
your vertex on their venus is the synastry aspect that turns a stranger into the love of your life inside one ...
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vertex conjunct moon
fated emotional bond
your vertex on their moon is the kind of synastry aspect that makes you cry the first time they tell you about...
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vertex conjunct mars
fated chemistry
your vertex on their mars is the synastry aspect that makes you forget how to speak the first time they walk p...
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vertex conjunct eros
fated desire
your vertex on their eros is the synastry aspect that makes you ache for someone you barely know. the vertex i...